We cannot attend to every event or person around us – this is
termed as ‘Selective attention’ in psychology. That's how humans are.
If I go by this theory, I have found the answer to the
biggest question posed to me - Off course - by my roomies. They have always
wondered why I pay no attention while watching some movie or reading one of
those hefty novels.
There was this one incident when I was watching some movie
with headsets on. They all gathered around me and started shouting at me – all the
names they call me. I was not aware of it. I had seen them gather around me. I could
see them talking but in flashes, as i was gripped by that movie. They started raising
their voice and i could hear them calling my name.
In that moment i chose not to reply but listen to what was
going on. They were shouting my name one by one with growing pitch and loudness,
trying to merit a response from me. Maybe they had a competition going on.
I could hear one of them putting forward a theory”Indrajeet
would respond to a specific roomy only”. So all other were out of competition and
the one man was up and roaring at me. I felt the situation might get to screams
via loud-louder-loudest. So I chose to shout back and ask him to shut the heck
off. There were loud cheers accompanied
by the victory dance.
Rohit who won was happy for the victory. Rohan was busy
manipulating people into thinking that it was his theory that had won. The
other Rohit was busy contemplating some sarcastic barbs and i was wondering “what’s
wrong with these people, why can’t I enjoy one good movie?” In that moment I was awry of their little adventure.
While i sit down read experimental methods in psychology, i
get the feeling that my roomies are scientists in disguise. Why i say this is because
the psychologists do the same experiments with so called ‘natural’ setup. I am
the object of roomies’ experiment. While i feel proud of their scientific
approach, I am little disheartened that i was not one them in this experiment! :( So I could call myself
a scientist in disguise! :)
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